The Parent-Teacher Conference Survival Guide

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Apr 1, 2025

Dive into the emotional rollercoaster of parent-teacher conferences as a mother navigates her son’s school mischief. Discover the power of open communication between parents and teachers to support children's growth. Learn how fostering a trusting environment encourages kids to express their emotions and take responsibility. Plus, explore strategies for honest conversations that transform challenges into opportunities, ultimately helping children thrive both at home and in school.

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ADVICE

Responding to Misbehavior

When your child confesses misbehavior, say, "I'm so glad you're talking to me about this."
Give them a hug to create a sense of safety and connection.

INSIGHT

Long-Term Parenting Goals

Children's bad behavior is less important than their willingness to seek help from parents.
Prioritize open communication over immediate punishment.

ANECDOTE

Son's Confession

Dr. Becky's son confessed to talking on the rug, calling out, rushing work, and pushing a classmate.
This vulnerability was unusual for him, highlighting his need for support.

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In this episode, Dr. Becky shares a vulnerable moment at home when her son confesses his schoolyard transgressions—just as she prepares for his parent-teacher conference. She walks us through a play-by-play of what happens next, offering valuable insights into how to navigate these conversations with our kids and their teachers.

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