Dr. Alex Comfort, a poet, novelist, anarchist, and philosopher, is the man behind the revolutionary book, The Joy of Sex, which sold over 12 million copies. Eric Laursen, author of Polymath, joins Kate to explore Comfort's work and the impact of his book on society. They discuss Comfort's ideas of anarchy and activism, as well as the philosophy of free love and the importance of communication in relationships. Don't miss this fascinating exploration of the book that changed sex forever!
The Joy of Sex, written by Dr. Alex Comfort, revolutionized the genre of sex manuals by introducing a relaxed and humorous approach.
Dr. Alex Comfort's interest in sex and sexual education was influenced by his earlier encounters with couples lacking knowledge about sexual health and pleasure, leading to the creation of the renowned Joy of Sex.
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The Legacy of "The Joy of Sex"
The Joy of Sex, written by Dr. Alex Comfort, revolutionized the genre of sex manuals by introducing a relaxed and humorous approach. It aimed to provide accurate information and destigmatize conversations around sex. The book's popularity and lasting legacy can be seen in the numerous sex manuals that followed its format and voice. Dr. Comfort's emphasis on the social aspect of sex and the importance of communication and play still holds relevance today.
Dr. Alex Comfort: A Multi-Faceted Life
Dr. Alex Comfort, a physician, gerontologist, poet, and activist, had a multi-faceted career and life. He was involved in various social and political causes, including gay rights and anti-nuclear campaigns. His interest in sex began early in his career when he encountered couples with little knowledge about sexual health and pleasure. This led him to write books on sex, including the renowned Joy of Sex. His progressive ideas and belief that sex is intertwined with broader social issues left a lasting impact on the field of sexual education.
The Connection with Alfred Kinsey
Dr. Alex Comfort had a connection with Alfred Kinsey, the renowned American sexologist. He reviewed Kinsey's influential Kinsey Report and corresponded with the Kinsey Institute, sharing research and material. Dr. Comfort's own research and interest in sex predated his connection with Kinsey. However, their collaboration and shared focus on studying sexual behavior further enriched Dr. Comfort's understanding of the subject.
Personal Life and Legacy
Dr. Alex Comfort's personal life, including his relationships with his wife Ruth and his mistress Jane, played a role in shaping the development of the Joy of Sex. His affair with Jane influenced their exploration of sexual behavior and contributed to the creation of the book. Despite concerns that the Joy of Sex overshadowed his other work, Dr. Comfort stood by its message and the importance of open communication and play in adult relationships. His legacy includes his contributions to the field of sexual education and his groundbreaking approach to understanding sex as an integral part of human social relations.
There had been sex manuals for hundreds of years, but by the 20th century they were quite underground. That is, until the Joy of Sex was released in 1972.
It was a revolutionary book about sex, and sold over 12 million copies.
Who was the man behind it? His name, aptly, was Dr. Alex Comfort, and he was a poet, novelist, anarchist and philosopher, amongst other things.
This episode was edited by Teän Stewart-Murray and produced by Stuart Beckwith. The senior producer was Charlotte Long.
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