Ask Uncut - My Boyfriend Drank Another Woman's Breast Milk
Apr 10, 2024
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Topics include navigating contraception responsibilities in relationships, exploring chemistry in dating, and discussing an unusual incident where a man drank another woman's breast milk as a penalty during a social gathering.
Communication is key when it comes to discussing family planning decisions.
Respect for bodily autonomy should be balanced with shared responsibilities in a relationship.
Establishing boundaries and privacy expectations is crucial in house-sitting arrangements.
Deep dives
First Question - Partner Drinking Breast Milk
The listener's boyfriend drank his best friend's partner's breast milk as part of a game. The listener feels upset and grossed out by this revelation, as she always thought her breast milk would be the only one he tried. She questions if she is overreacting or not. The boyfriend reasons that drinking breast milk is similar to consuming cow's milk.
Second Question - Sexual Chemistry Growth
The listener wonders if sexual chemistry can grow in a relationship. She met a guy with whom she shares common interests and laughs, but does not feel an immediate desire to kiss him. She is open to dating outside her usual type in search of stability, but questions if chemistry can develop over time.
Third Question - Trying to Build Chemistry
The listener met a guy from a dating app and had a great conversation with him, but struggles to envision kissing him. She is exploring dating beyond her usual criteria, but wonders if sexual chemistry can develop. She considers giving it a chance to see if attraction grows.
Fourth Question - Partner Drinking Breast Milk
A woman's boyfriend drank breast milk as a part of a game at his friend's house. The woman feels grossed out and upset as she expected her breast milk to be the only one he tried. She questions if she is overreacting and expresses discomfort at the situation.
Fifth Question - Partner Drinking Breast Milk
A woman's boyfriend drank his best friend's partner's breast milk as part of a game. She feels grossed out and upset, as she always thought hers would be the only breast milk he tried. She questions if she is overreacting and is uncomfortable with the situation. The boyfriend justified it by comparing it to drinking cow's milk.
My husband and I have two kids. I would happily have another but he doesn't want another. I've become comfortable with this being our family unit. As such, I have broached the conversation of him having a vasectomy because I don't feel as though I should be responsible for contraception given that he is the one who has made this decision. He has completely taken the idea of a vasectomy off the table and said that he will not have one. Although I feel he should have bodily autonomy, I think it is an unfair expectation that he won't have one when I have already given birth to our two children.
I was house/pet sitting while the owners were away on holidays. I just discovered an indoor camera in the kitchen / living area - after having a very hot sex with my partner pretty much right in front of it! I have also been walking around naked or just undies when it’s hot. I did ask the owners about cameras/security before agreeing to the house sit and they only informed me about a front door security camera. What do I do now?? Do I ask them about it or should I just ignore it and pray that the camera wasn’t recording, nobody saw anything and they don’t have first class porn stored somewhere on their cloud?
Do you think sexual chemistry can grow? I met up with a guy from Hinge, had a great chat, lots of laughs and things in common but couldn’t picture myself kissing him. I usually rely on it from the get go but I’m trying to date guys I wouldn’t usually initially pick since the guys that I do feel instant chemistry with haven’t worked out.
My boyfriend just told me that when he was at his best friend's house the other night he lost track of the odds and had to drink his bestie's baby mama's breast milk. We don’t have kids yet and I always thought mine would be the only breast milk he tried. Idk how to feel about it. I'm kinda grossed out and feel upset that he tried another woman's breast milk but don’t know if I’m overreacting or not. He also thinks it’s fine cos it’s the same as drinking female cow milk.