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The Psychology of your 20s

126. How to heal a fear of abandonment

Sep 15, 2023
46:32
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Exploring the fear of abandonment and its manifestations in relationships. Understanding the roots of this fear and its connection to codependency. Exploring the link between fear of abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder. Discussing the impact of fear of abandonment on relationships and providing tips for overcoming it.
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  • The fear of abandonment is often rooted in childhood experiences or early romantic relationships, leading to insecurities and a belief that everyone we love will leave us.
  • Acknowledging and examining the origin and triggers of the fear of abandonment is crucial to challenging negative beliefs and building healthier relationships.

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Overview of the Podcast Episode

In this podcast episode, the host discusses the fear of abandonment and its impact on relationships. The episode explores how this fear can disrupt our ability to form meaningful connections and trust others. The speaker emphasizes that a fear of abandonment is often rooted in childhood experiences or early romantic relationships, leading to insecurities and a belief that everyone we love will leave us. Different behaviors associated with this fear are discussed, including self-sabotage, clinginess, avoidance, and emotional baiting. The episode also addresses the different archetypes or profiles of individuals with abandonment wounds. Through overcommunication, self-care, and challenging negative beliefs, the speaker suggests ways to overcome the fear of abandonment and build healthier relationships.

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