Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics Relaxed Receiving
Sep 21, 2023
Exploring the challenges of receiving touch and communicating our needs, the importance of stillness and clear communication in deepening pleasure, creating a positive feedback loop in erotic massage, and the value of follow-up coaching sessions and community participation.
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Passive Receiving Is Often Misread
- Passive receiving of touch is common due to conditioning from spa culture and quiet childhood masturbation.
- This can be mistaken for disengagement even when the receiver is deeply present and relaxed.
Coaching Couple: Different Massage Goals
- Chris shares a coaching couple where she felt lonely giving a massage while he was blissfully passive.
- The man described loving the quiet meditative state and not needing to respond verbally.
Different Destinations In Touch
- Erotic relaxation and active responsiveness are both valid and complementary receiving styles.
- Clarifying which destination you want (playful, meditative, arousing) avoids mismatch and deepens the experience.