Modern Wisdom #674 - Adam Lane Smith - 17 Ugly Psychology Truths No One Wants To Admit
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Aug 31, 2023 
In this engaging discussion, Adam Lane Smith, a psychotherapist and author with extensive experience in relationships, shares revealing insights about psychology and intimacy. He explains why first dates don’t guarantee love and highlights the stark reality of modern dating dynamics. Delving into the effects of daycare on child development, Adam emphasizes the importance of familial bonds. He also addresses gender communication gaps and the sacrifices of parenting, offering listeners a fresh perspective on the complexities of human connections.
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Dating Struggles
- Both men and women struggle in modern dating, even if men perceive women as having it easier.
- Women are often miserable, despite men thinking they enjoy casual encounters.
Blindsided Divorces
- Men often miss signs of relationship problems, leading to blindsided divorces.
- Women usually communicate dissatisfaction for years before leaving.
Couples Therapy
- Men are often unfairly demonized in couples therapy due to women's superior articulation of grievances.
- Therapists may also validate women's feelings more readily.
