This podcast explores the challenge of dealing with unsupportive friends, family, and partners when it comes to money mindset. It discusses the importance of understanding different money mindsets and how they can affect relationships. The speaker also shares a personal story about finding a major issue in their house and emphasizes the importance of communication and balance in relationships. Additionally, it explores the significance of reflecting on childhood experiences and money memories to understand their impact on one's current money mindset. The chapter also discusses the importance of creating new family values around money and taking responsibility for your money mindset.
Understanding the different money archetypes of your loved ones can foster empathy and create a foundation for understanding and compassion in your financial relationship.
Taking responsibility for your own money mindset is crucial for personal and financial transformation, regardless of the influence of others.
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Understanding Different Money Mindsets
In this podcast episode, Denise discusses the challenges of dealing with a partner, family, or friends who have a negative money mindset. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing that everyone may have a different money mindset and suggests taking the Sacred Money Archetype quiz to gain insight into each person's unique approach to money. Denise explains the eight different archetypes, such as the accumulator, alchemist, celebrity, and nurturer, and highlights how understanding these archetypes can help couples understand each other's money personalities. By having open conversations, exploring childhood money memories, and developing shared language, couples can create a foundation for understanding and compassion in their financial relationship.
Navigating Opposing Money Personalities
Denise addresses the scenario where couples have opposing money personalities, such as one person being creative and impulsive while the other is logical and cautious. She acknowledges the challenges that arise from these differences, including issues of manifesting abundance versus fearing scarcity. Denise suggests that understanding each other's archetypes and triggers can foster empathy and help couples find a balance between taking risks and making informed decisions. By having discussions, exploring childhood money memories, and creating shared family values, couples can effectively navigate their different money personalities and create a harmonious financial foundation.
Taking Responsibility for Your Money Mindset
Denise emphasizes that ultimately, individuals are responsible for their own money mindset, regardless of the influence of partners or family members. She encourages listeners to shield themselves from negative money talk and to focus on positive resources, such as her books and affirmations, to shift their mindset. Denise stresses the importance of personal growth and taking control of one's thoughts and feelings about money. While acknowledging the challenges that may arise, she highlights the potential for personal and financial transformation when individuals choose to take responsibility for their own money mindset.
So your partner or family and friends have a bad money mindset; now what?
I know this is so challenging, and I hear it from our Money Bootcamp members all the time.
How are you meant to do this essential money mindset work - working on yourself and growing your business - when everyone in your life seems to be against you or stuck in scarcity?
What should you do if the money blocks of the people around you are holding you back?
And how do you overcome the fears of outgrowing people or feeling isolated while you break cycles and create a new legacy for your family?
In so many situations, I’ve seen beautiful transformations when couples or family members unite and transform their collective money mindsets.
It’s happened in my own family, and my husband Mark and I even teach a module on this in our Money Bootcamp course.
So, on this new episode of the Chill and Prosper podcast, I’ve got my best advice for nurturing your money mindset and supporting your loved ones with their work.
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