The Minimalists 522 | Change
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Jan 12, 2026 
Dr. Maya Shankar, a cognitive scientist and author, delves into the intricacies of change and personal growth. She highlights the mental clutter caused by insecurities and the benefits of expressing vulnerabilities. The conversation explores jealousy and envy, emphasizing gratitude as a tool for reframing negative emotions. Maya discusses the importance of letting go of 'just-in-case' items to enhance well-being. She also touches on self-affirmation and how our identities extend beyond singular goals, encouraging listeners to embrace change with confidence.
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Break Mental Spirals With Self‑Affirmation
- Exit mental spirals by stepping outside your thoughts instead of doubling down on negative narratives.
- Do a self-affirmation exercise listing identities and values beyond the insecurity to regain perspective.
Share Insecurities To Let Them Go
- Express insecurities vulnerably to others instead of trying to expel or suppress them as enemies.
- Ask for connection or specific feedback to transform insecurity into relationship-building dialogue.
Focusing Illusions Narrow Identity
- A focusing illusion narrows identity to a threatened goal and amplifies insecurity when that goal falters.
- Zooming out to other meaningful identities returns perspective and preserves self-worth.
