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The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Boyfriend Destroyer: Exactly What to Say When a Girl Says "I Have a Boyfriend"

Dec 12, 2024
Many men feel defeated when a girl mentions her boyfriend, but it's seen as an opportunity here. The discussion uncovers clever strategies to overcome this common obstacle in dating. Personal anecdotes and practical advice are shared to boost confidence. Listeners will learn how to gauge interest and engage effectively, turning a perceived hurdle into a chance to enhance their seduction skills. It's all about becoming an unstoppable force in dating!
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Quick takeaways

  • Understanding that a girl's mention of having a boyfriend can either indicate commitment or insufficient attraction opens avenues for effective engagement.
  • Utilizing playful questioning techniques can reveal deeper insights into a woman's relationship, ultimately enhancing the potential for connection and attraction.

Deep dives

Understanding the Boyfriend Objection

When a woman says she has a boyfriend, it often serves two purposes: she may genuinely be committed or is not yet attracted enough to the person approaching her. In cases where attraction exists, she might express the boyfriend objection due to guilt, opening a doorway for more assertive and playful responses to break through that barrier. The speaker emphasizes the importance of reading the vibe and understanding the situation before making a move. A common tactic includes light teasing, suggesting that she might reconsider her options, thereby increasing confidence and attraction.

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