The podcast discusses the importance of listening as a parent, using an anecdote about a father's surprise when his son expressed a desire to learn to vacuum. It emphasizes that children are constantly communicating and parents need to truly listen to hear their message.
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Listening is a crucial leadership skill in parenting; truly paying attention helps us understand our children's needs and become better leaders in our families.
Children communicate their desires indirectly; effective parenting requires attentive listening to uncover their true intentions and support their growth.
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The Power of Listening as a Parent
In a noisy world where we often add to the din, it's worth remembering the ancient saying 'two ears, one mouth.' Award-winning psychologist Dr. Stuart Friedman emphasizes the importance of listening with leadership skills to our children to understand their needs. By truly paying attention with dedication and compassion, we can uncover what's inside their hearts and minds and become better leaders in our families. For example, one father was surprised to learn that his son's interest in learning was to vacuum because he wanted to be useful and have a purpose.
Understanding Children's Unspoken Messages
Children constantly try to communicate with us, sometimes in subtle ways. They may express their desires to be useful, have friends, or pursue their passions indirectly. Effective parenting requires us to be attentive and really listen to our children's unspoken messages. It's not always explicit, but if we are dedicated listeners, we can uncover their true intentions. By being attuned to their needs and desires, we can support them in becoming well-rounded individuals.
It’s a noisy world out there… and most of us add to the din. We chatter on social media. We chatter on the phone. We chatter over email.
Even as parents, we tend to do a lot of talking. There are all the things we tell our kids. The things we remind them about. The lessons we try to teach them. The books we read to them.