Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled
Meltdowns That Keep Happening, Even When We're Doing Everything Right
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Quick takeaways
- Understanding the child's perspective and intentions is essential in addressing meltdowns effectively.
- True calm should come from within oneself, allowing for the acceptance and safe expression of a child's emotions.
Deep dives
Understanding the Perceptive Child's Need for Care and Connection
This episode delves into the challenges faced by a parent who consistently responds to their child's upset feelings, yet experiences extended and intense meltdowns. The perceptive nature of the child, who is intellectually capable and verbally expressive, contributes to the complexity of the situation. The host emphasizes the importance of understanding the child's perspective and intentions, rather than focusing solely on the parent's intentions. The parent is encouraged to consider that their child's request for assistance, like putting on their pull-ups, may stem from a need for caregiving and connection, rather than control or power struggles. The importance of being honest, direct, and in the present moment when communicating with the child is highlighted. Validating the child's feelings by reflecting what is known for certain is also emphasized, helping the child feel seen and understood.
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