Self-Sabotage Is Not the Problem. This Is.

In this raw and powerful coaching moment, Kim Constable tackles a listener’s question about self-sabotage—and delivers a truth bomb that could change everything.

If you’ve ever felt like you were doing great with your diet or training, only to fall off track the moment people start noticing your results, this episode will hit home. Kim unpacks why self-sabotage isn’t something that happens to you, but rather a series of conscious or unconscious decisions that you choose in the moment.

You’ll learn:

• Why “falling off track” is not failure—it's just one choice

• How to shift from victim mindset to radical self-responsibility

• The real reason praise or progress might trigger your urge to quit

• Why reframing every moment as a decision puts the power back in your hands

• How childhood patterns of punishment and shame affect your adult behavior

• The one mindset shift that can permanently break your sabotage cycle

This isn’t just about weight loss. It’s about taking back control of your life—one decision at a time.

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