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Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

#1181 - When Mama Bear Strikes: A Deeper Look

Feb 19, 2025
15:23

A mum's classroom confrontation made headlines, but the full story reveals a more complex reality about school bullying. Learn why traditional approaches often fail, what evidence you need to collect, and when removing your child might be the best option. Plus, discover why building adult relationships could matter more than peer connections.

Quote of the Episode:

"Fundamentally our job is to keep our kids safe. When we can't control others' behaviour, sometimes removing our children is the only option."

Key Insights:

  • High emotions lead to poor decision-making.
  • Evidence collection is crucial for intervention.
  • Restorative practice isn't always effective. 
  • Working within the system brings better results.
  • Adult mentoring may be more valuable than peer relationships.
  • System escalation requires documented evidence.
  • Physical and psychological safety must be priorities.
  • Traditional age-based socialisation may need rethinking.

 

Resources Mentioned:

 

Action Steps for Parents:

  1. Document Everything
  • Keep interaction records
  • Save digital evidence
  • Track all school communications

2.  Work Within the System

  • Follow proper channels
  • Escalate systematically
  • Maintain evidence trails

3. Consider Safety Options

  • Evaluate psychological safety
  • Consider environment changes
  • Build adult support networks

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