In this podcast, Sabrina discusses 5 hard truths in dating, including the significance of text messaging, the misconceptions surrounding first dates, understanding relationship intentions and the fallacy of Limmerance, the difference between chemistry and compatibility, and the importance of navigating the dating process with self-awareness and perspective shifts.
Texting shouldn't be seen as a measure of interest or commitment in dating, focus on building a healthy connection not reliant on constant texting.
Going on a date is just an opportunity to get to know someone, don't jump to conclusions or create unrealistic expectations after one date, allow the dating process to unfold naturally.
Deep dives
Truths about Texting in Dating
One hard truth about dating discussed in this podcast episode is that texting doesn't need to be daily. The speaker argues that putting too much weight on daily texting can lead to codependency and anxiety. They emphasize that texting should not be seen as a measure of someone's interest or level of commitment in a relationship. Instead, they suggest focusing on building a healthy connection that is not solely reliant on constant texting.
The Importance of Defining a Date
Another key point discussed in the podcast is that going on a date does not automatically imply commitment. The speaker emphasizes that a date is simply an opportunity to get to know someone and determine whether a second date is desired. They caution against jumping to conclusions or creating unrealistic expectations after just one date, highlighting the need for patience and allowing the dating process to unfold naturally.
Distinguishing Intentions from Compatibility
The podcast also addresses the misconception that someone wanting a relationship automatically means they want a relationship with you. The speaker explains that understanding a person's dating intention is useful, but it does not guarantee a compatible long-term connection. They encourage individuals to see things from a different perspective and to focus on building compatibility and connection beyond surface-level chemistry or initial interest.
Understanding Ghosting and Personalizing Rejection
The podcast challenges the notion that not receiving a text after a date constitutes ghosting. The speaker clarifies that ghosting involves sudden and unexplained disappearances after a longer dating period, while not hearing back after a single date does not fall into this category. They highlight the importance of not internalizing rejection and not taking it personally, suggesting that it is more a reflection of the other person's issues rather than one's own worth.
This week Sabrina talks about 5 hard truths in dating we ALL need to hear. From texting in dating to ghosting, Sabrina breaks down each of the truths and gives a different perspective on dating.
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