Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast Change Your Marriage Mindset - Question & Answer from The Locker Room w/ Jim Ramos EP 939
Dec 3, 2025
Join Jim Ramos as he dives into transformative ideas for marriage. He challenges listeners to reframe their mindset using insights from insightful books. Discover how to conquer negative thoughts with a unique UFO method and replace false narratives with love and truth. Learn the importance of taking offense captive for a healthier relationship, and hear a caller's inspiring journey of change. This conversation mixes wisdom and practical advice for every man looking to enhance his marriage.
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Framing Conviction From A Book
- Jim recounts learning about 'framing' from David/Donald Minter's book '31 Days of Paradise' and feeling convicted.
- He repented after realizing he'd framed his wife poorly for 20 years and began retraining his thinking.
One Idea Can Trigger Real Change
- Realizing a single new concept (framing) can convict and change decades of behavior overnight.
- Jim Ramos describes instant conviction followed by repentance and ongoing training to think differently.
Use UFO To Capture Negative Thoughts
- Identify and capture negative thoughts using the UFO method (Untruth, False narrative, Overreaction).
- Replace them quickly with truth-based, positive frames about your wife and act toward her kindly.
