A Slight Change of Plans

Maya’s Slight Change of Plans, Revisited

Oct 30, 2024
Maya reflects on her heart-wrenching journey to motherhood, sharing the layered emotions of pregnancy loss and grief. She candidly discusses the complexities of gestational surrogacy, highlighting her bond with surrogates like Haley. The narrative balances moments of hope, especially during a renewed attempt at embryo transfer, with the challenges of connection during difficult times. With humor, she addresses the often-overlooked realities of parental anxieties and health issues while navigating the chaotic path to parenthood.
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Meeting Haley, The Perfect Surrogate

  • Maya describes the deeply personal experience of seeking a gestational surrogate named Haley to carry her baby.
  • They felt an immediate and strong connection with Haley, making their surrogacy journey very intimate and hopeful.
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Miscarriage Grief Includes Surrogate

  • After a promising embryo transfer, Haley miscarried unexpectedly early in the pregnancy.
  • Maya reflects on the pain of all three parties grieving, highlighting the emotional complexity of surrogacy.
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Second Pregnancy Brings Hope

  • Maya and Haley tried for a second pregnancy in August 2021, feeling hopeful despite past loss.
  • This time, pregnancy tests showed strong positive signs and excitement grew for their baby, Karina.
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