

209. Utilizing Learn and Move On
Jan 20, 2025
Explore how setbacks with pornography can be transformed into growth opportunities. Discover the 'Learn and Move On' exercise, designed to shift your mindset from guilt to insight. The powerful worksheet guides you through reflecting on behaviors and emotions. Learn to challenge shame-based thoughts and visualize key takeaways, empowering you to turn discouragement into motivation. This approach fosters personal growth while promoting unconditional commitment to quitting harmful habits.
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Learn and Move On Exercise
- Use the "Learn and Move On" exercise when you slip up with pornography.
- Deep-dive into the experience and explore the before and after to understand the situation.
Shame as the Core Issue
- Shame and distress from pornography use are often the most damaging aspects, more than the act itself.
- Healing this shame is crucial for making better decisions and breaking free from the cycle.
Individual Goals
- Focus on healing and gaining control, regardless of individual pornography consumption goals.
- The program supports various goals, whether reducing compulsive behavior, stopping buffering, or quitting altogether.