Exploring the pitfalls of ego in parenting and the negative consequences it can bring to both parents and children.
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To be a good parent, it is essential to diminish ego, prioritize reason, calmness, compassion, and what is right over personal pride.
A good parent is egoless, prioritizes their children's success, values reason, calmness, and compassion in their approach to parenting.
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The Enemy of Good Parenting: Ego
One of the main obstacles to effective parenting is the presence of ego. Examples of parental failings rooted in ego include being unable to accept being contradicted, refusing to admit when one is wrong, trying to impress others, and feeling jealous of one's own children. Ego hinders collaboration, self-improvement, kindness, and success in various areas of life. It not only leads to regrets and projecting one's issues onto others but also affects the wellbeing of the young and vulnerable. To be a good father, it is crucial to constantly question and diminish the ego, prioritize reason, calmness, compassion, and prioritize what is right over personal pride.
The Traits of a Good Father
A good father is egoless, willing to put others before themselves, and isn't concerned with what others think. They want their children to succeed and are open to being proven wrong if it leads to improvements. They value reason, calmness, and compassion in their approach to parenting. It is important to strive for egolessness in order to be a good father and set a positive example for the young ones. This message is further explored in the book 'Ego is the Enemy', which provides valuable insights on this subject.
"There are so many sad examples: The father who can’t bear to be contradicted. The parents who refuse to admit when they are wrong. The mom who spends all her energy trying to impress other people. The father who is jealous of his own son, or threatened by the attention his daughter gets.
All these parental failings—and make no mistake, they are failings—share a root cause: Ego."
Ryan describes the pitfalls of ego, and how you can avoid them, in today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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