The Gray Area with Sean Illing Well this is awkward
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Nov 11, 2024 
Alexandra Plakias, a philosopher and author of "Awkwardness: A Theory", redefines the notion of awkwardness, asserting that it stems from situations rather than individual traits. She explores how awkward moments can challenge social norms and discusses the discomfort during interactions in our divided world. With charm, she shares relatable experiences and insights on navigating goodbyes and small talk, emphasizing the role of humor in easing tension. The conversation invites listeners to embrace awkwardness as a shared human experience.
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Awkwardness: A Social Property
- Awkwardness is not a personality trait, but a social property.
- Only situations, not people, can truly be awkward.
Awkwardness: A Script Failure
- Awkwardness arises when social scripts collapse, leaving uncertainty about roles and interactions.
- It's a shared experience, not an individual flaw.
Reframing Awkwardness
- Reframe awkwardness as disorientation or being lost.
- This shift reduces self-blame and encourages finding solutions.
