Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 507 - Putting Your Values into Action with Jaime Gama
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Nov 26, 2024 Jaime Gama, a psychologist specializing in ethical relationships, shares insights from his popular Instagram account, Gotitas de Poliamor. He delves into the complexities of non-monogamous identities, emphasizing the importance of adapting personal labels over time. Jaime discusses the significance of validating emotions without guilt and advocates for open communication about desires in all relationship types. He also explores the impact of traditional masculine norms and the need for compassionate, community-driven connections.
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Not Polyamorous
- Jaime Gama hosts a popular Instagram account focused on non-monogamy.
- Despite this, he has never personally identified as polyamorous, preferring the broader term "non-monogamous".
Ambiamory and Identity
- The rise of the term "ambiamorous" helps describe individuals comfortable with both monogamy and polyamory.
- Many feel pressured to rigidly identify as either polyamorous or not, causing internal conflict when their experiences don't neatly fit these labels.
Label Flexibility
- Jaime Gama advises those struggling with relationship labels to embrace flexibility and not seek a perfect fit.
- He emphasizes personal evolution, acknowledging that identities can change over time, and that's acceptable.