Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2526: The Joys (and Tears) of Parenting My Adult Children by Shantel Patu of Gottman on Motherhood and Fatherhood
Mar 21, 2025
Navigating parenthood takes on new dimensions as children grow into adulthood. The journey is filled with heartwarming nostalgia and bittersweet realizations. Parents transition into complex roles, from cheerleaders to counselors, as they support their adult children. Emotions run deep, mixing pride with the joy of watching them thrive. This reflectiveness captures the essence of love and guidance as parents learn to embrace independence while remaining a constant source of support.
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Adulting Challenges
- Shantel Patu's daughter, a 20-year-old college student, came home frustrated with her job and life.
- Despite being an adult, Patu still saw her as her little girl, highlighting the enduring parent-child bond.
The Improv of Parenting
- Raising a child is a lifelong commitment, filled with unexpected obligations and joys.
- Parenting is like improv, with parents navigating the ups and downs without a script.
Parenting as Bartending
- Parenting is compared to bartending, mixing different approaches to suit each child's personality.
- Patu recalls learning her son's love language and dealing with her daughter's newfound independence, showcasing the diverse challenges within a family.