Obviously your job is going to be more secure, more fulfilling, and a more significant source of self-worth if you are NECESSARY to the company. So why don't people take the same pragmatic approach when it comes to marriage? I'll give you two reasons: people don't want to do a objective self-inventory, and people have an idealistic self-sabotaging view of love/relationships. I also touch on attachment, pursuer-distancer, dynamics between stay-at-home and primary breadwinner spouses, and more! PLEASE SUBSCRIBE if you love my podcast! :) https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe