Savage Lovecast Episode 891

Nov 21, 2023

Topics in this podcast include a pansexual woman's mystery of contracting gonorrhea, the strange behaviors of a married man during sex, advice on dealing with difficult family members, the importance of comprehensive screening for gonorrhea, navigating painful surprises in long-term relationships, the significance of sexual positioning shapes, addressing minor adjustments in relationships, the conflicts over future desires of having children, and exploring alternative options for starting a family.

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Introduction

00:00 • 3min

Adult Baby Weirdos, Golden Showers, and Thanksgiving Advice

03:17 • 6min

Relationship Advice and Discussion on Family Issues

09:02 • 3min

Unexplained Behaviors During Sex

11:44 • 5min

Comprehensive screening for gonorrhea and importance of latex barriers for oral sex

16:30 • 6min

Navigating Painful Surprises and Evolving Love in a Long-Term Relationship

22:37 • 6min

Sexual Positioning Shapes and Relationship Compatibility

28:13 • 3min

Navigating minor adjustments in relationships

31:36 • 3min

Differences in Future Desires

34:42 • 4min

Exploring Alternative Options for Having Children

39:04 • 11min

A pansexual woman and her new lover got an unpleasant surprise...gonorrhea! But nothing makes sense. They had both tested negative and he claimed he wasn't sleeping with anyone else. Did she get it from her sex toys? What happened here?

A woman was messing around with a married man for a while. He always closed his eyes during sex, and never wanted her to talk. He even covered her mouth once when she tried to speak. She broke it off, but wonders what was going on in his tortured mind.

On the Magnum: Getting ready to hunker down with difficult relatives over Thanksgiving? Take a deep breath (and the sedative of your choice) and listen to this interview. Dan brings on wholesome Marriage and Family Therapist Vienna Pharaon. Her book "The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love" is on point. With imperfect family members who aren't evil, but aren't great, how can we be in relationship with them while meeting them as they are? And how can we protect ourselves from the truly toxic ones? (You'll hear the bone chilling tale of the Evil Granny.)

And speaking of family, a man and his girlfriend are at a familiar crossroads. He wants kids and she does not. Should they break up? Keep talking endlessly about it? Cobble together an open relationship of some kind? Dan has some unconventional but pragmatic advice.

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