Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, Intimacy 94 | From “Oh, Hell No!” to "The Golden Ticket" - 4 Phases of Sexuality in Recovery from Adultery
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Feb 24, 2025 Discover the emotional challenges of reclaiming intimacy after infidelity. Hear personal stories that illuminate the journey from betrayal to renewed connection. The hosts discuss navigating complex feelings, the significance of open communication, and the role of faith in healing. They share insights on creating a 'new normal' in relationships and the unconventional methods that foster deeper intimacy. This heartfelt discussion is a beacon of hope for couples seeking to rebuild their sexual relationship after trauma.
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Volatile Makeup Sex After Discovery
- Emily describes intense post-discovery sexual moments driven by fear of losing Johnny and proving worth.
- They call it makeup sex on steroids and found it emotionally volatile and unsustainable.
Triggers Addressed During Intimacy
- Emily recounts feeling invaded by "ghosts" of the betraying partners during sex and asking triggering questions mid-act.
- Johnny answered in the moment and they used those interruptions as healing opportunities.
Sweet Summer Of Sexual Renewal
- They experienced a "sweet summer of sex" after a vow renewal and bedroom remodel where daily sex returned briefly.
- That season revealed new sexual delights they hadn't known before and felt like a renewed marriage.
