On Purpose with Jay Shetty

⁠If You're Tired of Wasting Time on the Wrong People — THESE 9 Dating Questions Will Save You Years of Heartbreak!

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Jul 18, 2025
Dive into the world of dating with crucial insights on how clarity and communication can transform relationships. Explore nine essential questions that can reveal compatibility and emotional readiness, fostering deeper connections. Learn how to discuss fears, conflict styles, and boundaries without pressure, emphasizing the importance of honest dialogue. Discover that real love thrives not on constant harmony but on the courage to ask tough questions and grow together.
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Define Healthy Relationship Early

  • Ask early "What does a healthy relationship look like to you?" to avoid assumptions and unmet expectations.
  • This creates shared language around emotional needs and prevents silent resentments.
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Discuss Commitment Fears Openly

  • Ask "What are you afraid of when it comes to commitment?" without pressure or ultimatums.
  • Frame it as curiosity to open dialogue and healing, not as a demand for commitment.
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Talk About Conflict Styles First

  • Ask "How do you handle conflict?" before fighting begins to prevent misunderstandings and resentment.
  • Knowing each other’s conflict style helps turn arguments into growth, not destruction.
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