The Psychology of your 20s

124. Moving to a new city in our 20s

Sep 8, 2023

In your 20s, the urge to move to a new city can spark self-discovery and growth. This transition is not just about the thrill of a new location; it taps into our natural curiosity and need for novelty. The discussion highlights the psychological benefits of relocating, such as fostering a growth mindset and building new connections. Practical advice addresses common challenges, such as loneliness and financial stability, while also introducing concepts like the '6 month' rule for adapting to new environments.

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Moving to a new city in your 20s allows for personal growth, self-reflection, and the development of problem-solving skills.

When moving to a new city, it's important to give yourself time to adjust, build a community, and overcome fear and financial anxiety.

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Benefits of Moving to a New City in Your 20s

Moving to a new city in your 20s can be a transformative experience that offers numerous benefits. The minimal external responsibilities during this decade make it an ideal time to take the risk. It allows us to know ourselves better by providing independence and self-reliance. The challenge of moving also helps us build resilience and develop a growth mindset. Additionally, it promotes problem-solving skills and self-reflection, leading to personal growth and a deeper understanding of our own identity and values. It reinforces the notion that life is not meant to be solely convenient and comfortable, but that growth comes from discomfort.

Tips for Alleviating Loneliness and Making Friends in a New City

01:23

The Benefits of Pursuing a Big Life Change

01:19

The Gut Instinct That Causes You to Feel Restless

01:42

The Psychology of Restlessness in Your 20s and the Six-Month Rule

01:15

Intro

3min

Embracing Change: The Psychology of Moving in Your 20s

5min

The Transformative Experience of Relocating in Your 20s

3min

Navigating New Beginnings in Your 20s

33min

Embracing Change: The Transformative Journey of Relocation in Your 20s

2min

A lot of us in our 20s feel the urge to upend everything and move to a new city - maybe for work, for a partner or just for the pure adventure of a new experience and environment. So in this episode we're going to break down why our 20s are perhaps the best time to make this major life change, from the lack of external responsibilities to the psychological benefits it brings, including self reflection, promoting a growth mindset and realising our ideal selves. We'll also explore why the urge to move to a new city really reflects our innate novelty seeking behaviour and why some people, the so called 'serial movers', can never seem to stay in one place for long. And finally, what are some of the practical ways we can actually do this and build community, maintain financial security, avoid feeling isolated? And what exactly is the so-called '6 month' rule? All of that and more, listen now!

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