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SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay

#254 Good Awkward | Henna Pryor

Mar 4, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Henna Pryor, author of 'Good Awkward,' delves into the transformative power of awkwardness in personal and professional growth. She highlights the 'spotlight effect,' revealing how our fear of being judged often exaggerates our self-consciousness. Henna offers practical tips for embracing awkward moments as strengths and emphasizes the importance of building empathy and connection. Listeners are encouraged to practice small social interactions to strengthen their 'social muscles' and cultivate authentic relationships.
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  • Awkwardness, often rooted in self-perception discrepancies, can inhibit personal growth if not acknowledged and managed effectively.
  • Embracing awkward moments with humor not only fosters relatability but also enhances genuine connections in both personal and professional settings.

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Understanding Awkwardness

Awkwardness is identified as a social emotion that arises when there’s a disconnect between one's internal self-perception and how others perceive them. This feeling typically manifests when someone perceives themselves differently from the way they think others see them, creating a gap that results in discomfort. It begins in childhood, particularly around the age of eight or nine, when self-consciousness intensifies due to the awareness of social norms and expectations. The phenomenon of the 'imaginary audience' is discussed, where individuals begin to feel scrutinized by others, often leading to a heightened sense of awkwardness in social situations.

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