

160: Why You Keep Sabotaging Love Without Realizing It | In The Trenches
9 snips Sep 9, 2025
Explore the reasons behind sabotaging good relationships and how insecurities can distort perception. Discover how timing and distance may trigger feelings of abandonment, and learn the fine line between intuition and fear. Personal stories and practical tools are shared to calm anxiety and foster honest conversations about needs. Gain insights into navigating emotional turmoil, setting boundaries, and the importance of professional support. This insightful discussion aims to empower listeners to embrace love with confidence and recognize their worth.
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Authenticity Over People-Pleasing
- You don't have to change who you are to be loved; growth can happen without losing yourself.
- Authenticity attracts real connection and helps you find people who fit you, not erase you.
Judge Patterns, Not Isolated Crises
- Look for patterns in actions, not isolated crises when judging someone's reliability.
- Consistent demonstrable investment (small acts) often signals genuine commitment despite chaos.
Decide If Their Life Fits Yours
- Decide if you can accept a partner's current lifestyle rather than assuming they'll change.
- Ask yourself realistically: if nothing changes in a year, will this still work for you?