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The Next Right Thing

291: The Next Right Thing for Perfectionists

Sep 5, 2023
Exploring the hindrances of perfectionism and the importance of moving forward; strategies for overcoming different perfectionistic mindsets; how constant defensiveness can stem from perfectionism; reflecting on perfectionistic tendencies and personal growth.
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Quick takeaways

  • Embracing partial solutions can be a kinder approach when perfection seems unattainable.
  • Offering self-compassion as an alternative to self-contempt can help overcome a critical mindset.

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All-or-nothing thinking

All-or-nothing thinking is a mindset that can keep us stuck in perfectionism. It's when we delay or avoid starting a project because we believe it won't meet our unrealistic expectations. For example, the speaker shares how she wanted to redo her sunroom as a home office but couldn't remove an unsightly sink. Instead of halting the entire project, she embraced a partial solution, using the sink as a base for watering plants. This mindset can also manifest in other areas of life, like personal retreats or cooking. Embracing partial solutions can be a kinder approach when perfection seems unattainable.

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