The hosts discuss the concept of pride and its basis in Stoicism, emphasizing personal actions over external factors. They explore the nuances of pride, favoring admiration and joy over material possessions. The episode delves into redefining pride and the importance of aligning choices with nature for true pride.
Taking pride in external factors that are not earned is pointless and illogical.
Genuine pride should come from aligning our behavior with nature and making good choices.
Deep dives
Pride in the unearned
The podcast explores the concept of pride and cautions against taking pride in things that aren't earned, such as physical appearance or nationality. It emphasizes that being proud of external factors that we have no control over is illogical and futile.
Pride in our choices
The episode highlights the Stoic notion of taking pride in our own choices. It argues that we should only be proud of our actions and decisions, as those are the aspects of life within our control. The podcast suggests that aligning our behavior with nature allows us to take pride in the goodness we manifest through our choices.
Pride in others' achievements
The podcast delves into the complexities of feeling pride in someone else's accomplishments, particularly in the context of our children. It distinguishes between feeling genuine joy and admiration for the achievements of loved ones and the misnomer of claiming pride in those achievements. The episode warns against equating our own worth with the achievements of others and encourages focusing on our own choices and adherence to nature for genuine pride.