The Covert Narcissism Podcast Nothing Was Ever Good Enough: Growing Up with a Covert Narcissistic Mother
Feb 7, 2025
A guest shares their painful journey growing up with a covert narcissistic mother, revealing the emotional manipulation and gaslighting that shaped their self-doubt. The conversation highlights the importance of setting boundaries and reclaiming one's identity amidst conditional love. They discuss the complexities of navigating adult relationships influenced by such toxicity, including sibling dynamics and the decision to go no contact. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the healing power of community and support for those seeking recovery from parental narcissism.
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Late Realization Of Narcissistic Abuse
- Justin realized at age 30 that his mother's behavior fit covert narcissism after years of tension he couldn't explain.
- Naming the behavior flipped his world and validated that he was not alone.
Naming Creates Distance
- Researching covert narcissism helped Justin make sense of lifelong gaslighting and manipulation.
- Recognition allowed him to stop blaming himself and begin healing.
Vacation Goalpost Move
- Justin described a Myrtle Beach vacation where he and his wife balanced couple time and family time successfully.
- On the last day his mother accused them of not spending enough time with her and shamed them despite the truth.