The Art of Manliness

#239: Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

Sep 29, 2016

Clinical psychologist Les Parrot discusses personal readiness for marriage, debunking marriage myths, and the importance of having conversations with your future spouse. They also explore individual readiness for a strong marriage, different mindsets towards marriage, and the three ingredients of romantic love. They emphasize the importance of self-awareness, seeking mentorship, and premarital counseling for a successful relationship.

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Romantic love requires attention and cultivation of passion, intimacy, and commitment.

Having the right attitude in challenging circumstances is crucial for a strong and lasting relationship.

Understanding each other's personalities and meeting each other's needs can bridge the communication gap between men and women in relationships.

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Understanding the Ingredients of Romantic Love

Romantic love consists of three essential ingredients: passion, intimacy, and commitment. These components are fluid and change over time, requiring attention and cultivation in a relationship.

Introduction

3min

Individual Readiness for a Strong and Happy Marriage

7min

Attitudes Towards Marriage

17min

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Promotions and Factors for Long-Lasting Love in a Marriage

5min

The Three Ingredients of Romantic Love

18min

Resources and Websites for 'Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts'

3min

With some thought and intentionality, you can help ensure that you have a happy, loving, fulfilling relationship that lasts until death do you part.
My guest today is Les Parrot and he’s a clinical psychologist specializing in marriage and family. He, along with wife Leslie, who's also a marriage therapist, have written a book to help couples prepare themselves for matrimonial commitment. It’s called "Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts: Seven Questions to Ask Before— And After—You Marry."
Today on the show, Les and I discuss how a man can know if he’s personally ready for marriage, the myths people have about marriage that set them up for disappointment, and the conversations you should be having with your future spouse to help ensure you have a happy life together. While the conversation is geared towards soon-to-be marrieds and newlyweds, even if you’ve been married for a couple decades, you’re going to find some useful advice and insights in this show.

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The Art of Manliness

#239: Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

Episode guests

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Quick takeaways

Deep dives

Understanding the Ingredients of Romantic Love

Adjusting to Things Beyond Your Control

Bridging the Gender Gap in Communication

Navigating Conflict for Deeper Intimacy

Applying the Principles to Any Stage of Marriage

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