Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo 3079 Ready for an Upgrade?
When you think about it, as two people come together, each with their own set of beliefs, values, and habits, there will inevitably be disagreements, misunderstandings, and hurt feelings.
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However, it is how we overcome these challenges that can make or break the marriage.
So instead of viewing the difficulties of marriage as a sign that something is wrong with our spouse, we should consider it as an opportunity for growth and self-improvement.
By upgrading ourselves, we can improve the overall quality of our relationship and experience deeper love and connection with our partner.
Now one reason why you should consider upgrading yourself in your marriage is that you have the most control over yourself and your actions.
It's easy to blame your spouse for the problems in the relationship, but if you take responsibility for your own growth and improvement, you can create positive changes that will benefit you both. Yet, if you keep doing things the same way, you can't expect different results.
Coming from this perspective, too, upgrading ourselves can lead to greater satisfaction and happiness in our own lives. When we take the time to work on personal growth and development, we cultivate a sense of calling, fulfillment, and inner peace that can have a positive impact on all areas of our lives, including our relationships.
So now that you're ready for an upgrade, and no, not a new spouse, how can you upgrade?
Change your reflection!
The K.I.S.S. ~ Change your reflection!And please know, this has nothing to do with the way you look, your shape, or your size. This is about how you show up in your everyday dealing with what comes your way today.
1. Communicate in love, and more effectively
Communication is essential in any relationship, but it's particularly critical in a marriage. Make time to talk to your spouse every day. Ask questions, listen to their responses, and respond with empathy and compassion. Communication is about comprehension. Understand to the fullest.
2. Show appreciation unexpectedly
It's easy to take your spouse for granted and only focus on their faults. You knock them down more than you build them up. But if you want to upgrade your relationship, it's important to appreciate the things your spouse does well. Take the time to acknowledge and thank your partner for the things they do for you.
3. Prioritize intimacy daily
Marriage is more than just a friendship or companionship. Physical intimacy is a crucial aspect of a healthy relationship. Make time for intimacy, whether it's a date night or just cuddling on the couch. When we prioritize intimacy, we deepen our emotional connection with our spouse.
4. Work on your personal development and growth
When you work on your personal development, you become better a person, which translates into becoming a better spouse. Take time to work on who you are becoming, know where you fall short, prioritize self-care, and challenge yourself to be better today than yesterday. When you take care of yourself, you bring more to the relationship table.
5. Practice forgiveness for yourself and let go of grudges that you hold
Forgiveness is essential in any relationship, but it's particularly critical in a marriage. Holding onto resentment and grudges can hinder growth and progress in yourself. If you can't let go of things for yourself, you will not be able to let go of things done to you. Practice forgiveness, especially for the smaller things.
All of this leads to loving your reflection.
The more you love yourself, the more love you have to give away.
Marriage is an ongoing journey. Love grows where love is planted. There are always new ways to upgrade and improve. But by focusing on your reflection, you will experience deeper love and stronger connections.
So, what are you waiting for? It's time for an upgrade!
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
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