Sex for Saints Episode 229 - Duty Sex
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Sep 9, 2022 Dive into the complexities of duty sex and its impact on intimacy. The discussion highlights how many women engage in sex out of obligation rather than desire. This lack of passion can drive a wedge between partners. Discover two key steps to shift the dynamic from obligation to mutual desire. It’s about reclaiming your sexual agency and nurturing a genuine connection. This thought-provoking conversation encourages a healthier approach to intimacy in relationships.
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Duty Sex Is Self-Betrayal
- Duty sex is when a wife has sex because she feels she "should" or must manage her husband's emotions rather than from desire.
- Amanda Lauder says this form of sex causes self-betrayal and damages a woman's relationship with herself.
Sex To Avoid A Spouse's Bad Attitude
- Amanda shares a client's comment that it's easier to have sex than face her husband's bad attitude.
- She uses this example to show sex as a tool to manage behavior and emotions in marriage.
Resentment Follows Forced Compliance
- Duty sex breeds resentment because women often feel they had no real choice and later blame their spouse.
- Amanda explains that learning to handle consequences healthily restores agency and reduces resentment.