Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 944
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Dec 3, 2024 Leigh Cowart, a science journalist and author of "Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose", dives deep into the intriguing world of masochism and pain. She reveals how pain can be transformed into pleasure and discusses the nuances of having a sadist's imagination. The conversation also touches on the societal implications of derogatory language, especially among youth, and hints at navigating intimate relationships, particularly the challenges of long-distance romance. Cowart’s insights are as enlightening as they are entertaining!
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Three Stages of Communication
- Dan Savage observes three stages of communication in relationships: initial caution, open sharing, and careful censorship.
- He connects this to the tendency of long-term couples to gossip about other couples, as a way to express unspoken relationship thoughts.
Soreness from Sex
- Vary sexual activities beyond intercourse, especially considering physical differences and potential discomfort.
- Use more lube to minimize pain and consider a strap-on to understand the receiving partner's perspective.
Explaining "That's So Gay"
- Explain to children that "that's so gay" implies homosexuality is negative, which can be internalized and harmful.
- Emphasize potential harm to both gay and straight friends who internalize this message.
