The Red Flags of Menopause That You Must Not Ignore

What happens when a woman whose career depends on confidence and words suddenly loses both? For journalist Shelly Horton, perimenopause didn’t arrive with hot flushes at first. It showed up as anxiety, heart palpitations, crushing self-doubt, and moments of forgetting simple words at work.

In this deeply honest episode, Dr Shauna Watts speaks with Shelly about her journey through perimenopause-related depression, being dismissed by doctors, and the quiet suffering of high-functioning women in midlife. Shelly shares how the right diagnosis, support, and hormone treatment helped her find herself again and why she’s now using her voice to make sure other women don’t feel invisible.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Understand how perimenopause can present as anxiety and depression

• Recognise why high-functioning women are often missed or dismissed

• Learn how hormonal changes affect confidence, cognition, and mood

• Understand the role of HRT in perimenopausal depression

• Recognise warning signs that shouldn’t be ignored

• Learn why advocacy, for yourself and others, matters

• Understand how shame and silence keep women unwell

This episode is for women who feel dismissed, disconnected, or quietly struggling in the midlife yearss. Shelly’s story sheds light on how hormonal change affects mental health and how proper support can help.

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00:00 – When Perimenopause Steals Your Confidence

00:08 – Shelly Horton’s Perimenopause Wake-Up Call

00:53 – Welcome to All About You with Dr Shauna Watts

01:10 – “I Didn’t Recognise Myself”: Losing Confidence in Midlife

02:24 – Early Perimenopause Symptoms Doctors Miss

07:46 – Perimenopause, Anxiety & Depression

10:56 – Getting the Right Diagnosis Changed Everything

14:32 – What Depression Really Feels Like

15:20 – Tracking Symptoms & Withdrawing from Life

16:29 – High-Functioning Depression at Work

17:28 – Why Women Hide Mental Health Struggles

19:24 – Fear, Myths & Starting HRT

20:45 – Dark Thoughts & Breakthrough Depression

23:26 – Finding a Psychiatrist Who Understands Hormones

26:32 – Extreme Heavy Bleeding in Perimenopause

28:37 – A Health Crisis That Forced Change

30:34 – Strength Training & Rebuilding Her Body

31:50 – Body Image, Aging & Self-Trust

35:46 – Going Public with Her Perimenopause Story

40:13 – Vaginal Dryness & Intimate Symptoms

42:17 – Invisibility, Anger & Female Empowerment

48:04 – Writing a Book to Change the Conversation

01:01:38 – A Message for Women Who Feel Lost

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