"Come On, Man" Podcast

Why Do Some Men Call Themselves The Prize But Still Get Ignored?

Aug 1, 2025
Explore the fascinating link between self-perception and dating success. Discover how belief, not just looks or charm, shapes attraction. Unravel the roots of validation-seeking behavior and its impact on relationships. Learn empowering techniques to enhance self-belief and personal agency. Dive into Neuro-Linguistic Programming to harness your emotions and visualize confidence. Finally, understand the power of reprogramming your subconscious for lasting change and success in love and life.
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INSIGHT

True Belief Defines The Prize

  • Calling yourself 'the prize' without truly believing it in your core shows insecurity.
  • Women instinctively recognize genuine belief and respond accordingly, making authentic confidence crucial for attraction.
INSIGHT

Seeking Validation Undermines You

  • Seeking validation reveals insecurity and undermines masculine presence.
  • Operating in her frame by focusing on her reactions diminishes attraction and self-worth.
ANECDOTE

Paul Bauer’s Validation Struggle

  • Paul Bauer once excelled as a systems engineer but still longed for validation from bosses.
  • This need for affirmation reflected his internal insecurity despite outward success.
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