Understanding Children's Emotional Responses

The challenges faced by the mother of twin three-year-olds and a newborn reveal the multifaceted ways children express their emotions. As the mother describes the extreme behaviors of her children, it becomes clear that these responses are linked to several significant life changes, including the arrival of a new sibling and the absence of a parent due to military service. The daughter’s incessant screaming and the son’s defiant behavior indicate that they are both processing their feelings in different ways—one through outward expressions and the other through resistance. Recognizing that these behaviors may not be direct attacks on her as a parent but rather manifestations of their emotional turmoil is essential for the mother to adopt a healthier perspective on their reactions.