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The Catholic Gentleman

Why Boys Are Not Becoming Men

Nov 23, 2023
Jason Craig, an author who has studied and defined the rites of passage boys must take to become men, shares his insights. They discuss the confusion surrounding the transition to manhood in today's culture and the challenges of reaching young men. They explore the concept of rites of passage for boys, emphasizing the connection with the sacraments. The importance of defining manhood, the role of mothers, and the significance of brotherhood in raising boys are also discussed.
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  • Initiation and brotherhood play a crucial role in helping boys transition into authentic masculinity and become men.
  • Creating exclusive male spaces and engaging in activities specifically for men is crucial for fostering a sense of brotherhood and facilitating the initiation of boys into manhood.

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The Importance of Initiation and Brotherhood for Boys

Initiation and brotherhood play a crucial role in helping boys transition into authentic masculinity and become men. In various cultures, rites of passage are observed to mark the end of boyhood and the beginning of manhood. These rites typically involve severing the old way of life, offering instruction and guidance on manhood, and incorporating the young men into a community of men. In modern times, it is essential for fathers and other men to provide this initiation and brotherhood for boys. Fathers should create spaces exclusively for men, where instruction and mentorship can take place, fostering a sense of belonging and the development of authentic masculinity. Intentionally seeking out and participating in meaningful activities with other men can help cultivate a sense of brotherhood and provide the necessary guidance and support for boys to become men.

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