The Catholic Gentleman

Every man fights invisible battles—fear, self-doubt, shame, and the lies he tells himself over and over about who he is and what he is good at. In this episode, John Heinen sits down with Devin Schadt to expose the real front line of spiritual warfare and personal growth: your thoughts. Together, they unpack how negative thinking becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, why social media magnifies feelings of inadequacy, and how unchecked mental habits shrink your brain and strangle your soul. With raw honesty and practical wisdom, John and Devin walk through a three-step battle plan rooted in Scripture and backed by neuroscience-to help you take control of your thoughts, hold them captive, and experience the freedom, success, and joy God intends for your life. As Devin says, “The very fact that those thoughts make you feel bad… is proof that you’re good.” This episode will equip you to stop living in fear and start thinking with clarity, truth, and power. 🟢 FREE ROSARY this month – catholicgentlemanplus.com 🔥 Explore Devin’s work – fathersofstjoseph.org Books for the Journey: LEAD - ⁠Click Here⁠ QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠ Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman 🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS - 24 SESSIONS AVAILABLE Enjoy 24 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Help Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Men grow up with emotions they can't understand or explain—impatience, anger, frustration, even loneliness or sadness—and because they lack the framework for how to work with these emotions they are ultimately controlled by them. In this episode, John Heinen sits down with T.K. Coleman—top 100 podcaster (The Minimalists) and author of Emotional Clutter—to expose the quiet war within: a spiritual battle fought not with swords, but with unprocessed emotions and buried beliefs. Together they unpack why suppressing emotion doesn’t make you strong—it makes you weak and immature. Learn why reclaiming your inner life is essential to leading your outer one. This isn’t self-help fluff. It’s a battle plan for men who want clarity, freedom, and spiritual firepower in a distracted world. We also discuss our thoughts on Pope Leo XIV. 🟢 FREE ROSARY this month - ⁠https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ 🔥 Get TK’s Book for FREE: Emotional Clutter🔥 Follow TK: ⁠Instagram | ⁠LinkedIn🔥 Explore The Minimalists Podcast: theminimalists.com/podcast QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠⁠ 🔴 FREE ROSARY | CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS Enjoy 24 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Help Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it take to master fear, stress, and anxiety in a world that constantly challenges men's confidence? Today, John Heinen welcomes Joe Hart, the transformational CEO of Dale Carnegie and Wall Street Journal bestselling author of 'Take Command.' As a converted lawyer leading a 100-year-old global organization while raising six children, Hart shares powerful insights on conquering the fixed mindset that paralyzes many men. This insightful conversation explores how to navigate major life transitions, build enduring relationships, and maintain family priorities amid professional demands. Hart reveals the surprising parallels between leading multinational organizations and guiding a family, offering practical wisdom rooted in both modern psychology and timeless principles. Don't miss this masterclass in authentic masculine leadership from one of today's most respected thought leaders. 🔥 FREE ROSARY this month - https://catholicgentlemanplus.com 🔥 Learn more about Joe Hart and his work: https://www.dalecarnegie.com https://www.amazon.com/Take-Command-Strength-Enduring-Relationships/dp/1982190108 https://www.linkedin.com/in/josephkhart 🟢 Catholic Podcasts and Music - https://www.streamfio.com QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠ Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman 🔴 FREE ROSARY | CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS Enjoy 24 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Help Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when more boys have smartphones than fathers in their homes? A groundbreaking UK research study called 'Lost Boys' has revealed alarming trends about young men today. John Heinen and Devin Schadt welcome back three-time guest Jim O'Day to respond to and unpack this landmark research and its implications. Together, they examine how the critical absence of male role models—particularly fathers—is creating a generation of directionless young men. The conversation highlights shocking statistics: women in their 20s are consistently out-earning their male counterparts, and young men are afraid to talk to women. The trio explores how fatherlessness, education failures, technology addiction, pornography exposure, and society's ignoring of men are ruining the future of humanity. While secular solutions continue to fall short, John, Devin, and Jim present both immediate interventions and long-term approaches rooted in timeless Catholic wisdom. Don't miss this essential conversation about reclaiming authentic masculinity for the next generation. 🔥 Learn more about Jim O'Day's work at https://www.threepillarstopurity.com/👔 NEW Catholic Gentleman Apparel - https://store.catholicgentleman.com/collections/apparel-1Books for the Journey: LEAD - Click HereQUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to podcast@catholicgentleman.comCheck out the Fathers of St. Joseph - https://fathersofstjoseph.org/Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS (ENTERTAINMENT SESSION JUST LANDED)Enjoy 23 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.comHelp Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What starts as a small vice for men spirals into continuous sin, addiction, and spiritual destruction. Today, John Heinen and Devin Schadt tackle three devastating habits that plague virtually every man's journey. They reveal the surprising connection between self-perception and our most dangerous tendencies, showing how both thinking too little and too much of ourselves leads down identical paths to self-destruction. With brutal honesty from their own experiences, John and Devin offer a practical and simple framework for understanding and conquering these universal male struggles before they consume your life, relationships, and soul. Every man needs these insights for the battles in his life. 🔥 NEW Catholic Gentleman Apparel - https://store.catholicgentleman.com/collections/apparel-1Books for the Journey: LEAD - Click HereQUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to podcast@catholicgentleman.comCheck out the Fathers of St. Joseph - https://fathersofstjoseph.org/Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS (ENTERTAINMENT SESSION JUST LANDED)Enjoy 23 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.comHelp Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fathers play a pivotal role in shaping the lives of their daughters, influencing their self-esteem and emotional well-being. Discover the three essential messages that every daughter longs to hear from her father. Personal stories shed light on the importance of love, affirmation, and trust in building a strong father-daughter bond. The power of genuine communication and being present is emphasized as a way to nurture confidence and resilience in daughters. Dive into insights that can transform fatherhood and impact generations.

Timothy Reckart, an Academy Award-nominated director known for 'The Star,' shares his journey in children's animation and his mission to combat political agendas in the industry. He discusses founding Sycamore Studios to create family-friendly content. The conversation dives into the impact of streaming and social media on kids' programming, urging parents to be vigilant about what their children watch. Timothy also highlights the importance of authenticity in storytelling and announces exciting projects like 'Halo Heroes' aimed at Catholic families.

Marvel's Captain America ignites a debate about the so-called 'death of the American male'. The hosts analyze Anthony Mackie's remarks, discussing the complexities of modern masculinity and fatherhood. They emphasize the importance of virtues like humility and respect in raising sons. The conversation also tackles the crucial role of father-son relationships and the need for personal sacrifice. Finally, they explore how spiritual growth during Lent can help redefine a man’s identity in today's society.

Devin Schadt, founder of the Fathers of St. Joseph, delves into the profound significance of St. Joseph, highlighting the four pillars that shape a man's journey to greatness. He shares how St. Joseph's humility and reliance on God provide a powerful example for modern men. A key focus is on embracing silence for spiritual growth and recognizing the dignity of women in relationships. Schadt emphasizes how true masculinity stems from self-giving love and the pivotal role of fathers in nurturing faith and transforming lives.

This discussion delves into pressing issues facing today's youth, such as loneliness and the impact of societal pressures. It highlights the critical role fathers play in safeguarding their children against various threats. The conversation offers practical strategies for navigating difficult topics like sexuality and technology, emphasizing the importance of open communication. Listeners gain insights into fostering healthy relationships and guiding their kids through the complexities of modern influences, all while celebrating the joys of fatherhood.