The Catholic Gentleman

What happens when your wife begins to pull away, and you can't figure out why? What's more is that everything you do to help fix the situation seems to fall short. John Heinen and Devin Schadt discuss the hidden physical, spiritual, and emotional forces that quietly fracture Catholic marriages. Drawing on Scripture, theology, and hard-won experience, they reveal how isolation, resentment, and the demons can slowly unravel trust and intimacy. Instead of ignoring the drift, they unpack five subtle dynamics that sabotage unity and show how to reclaim authentic headship rooted in sacrifice, courage, and clarity. If you’ve felt the distance and wondered how to bridge it, this conversation will equip you to lead with confidence and rediscover the peace, trust, and communion God intends for your marriage. QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠⁠ 🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS – 27 SESSIONS AVAILABLE Enjoy 27 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the most important spiritual formation in your child’s life isn’t happening at church—but at your dinner table? Today, John Heinen and Devin Schadt discuss how family dinner has quietly lost its soul—and how fathers must bring it back, not just as a routine, but as a call and obligation. The culture has shaped the dinner table into what we commonly see today on TV. It is failing at its core mission to be a cornerstone of a thriving family. This isn’t about Pinterest-perfect meals or polite conversation. It’s about forming identity, memory, and virtue in the chaos of real life. John and Devin share how their own families bring structure and meaning to mealtime—from the nightly “Good Thing, Difficult Thing, Random Thing” ritual to coaching kids through cleanup as a form of love and responsibility. Books for the Journey: LEAD – ⁠⁠https://shop.stewardshipmission.com/products/lead-daily-devontions-for-every-man QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠⁠ 🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS – 27 SESSIONS AVAILABLE Enjoy 27 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when the child you love won’t speak to you anymore? When the hurt runs deep—and it’s your fault? John Heinen and Devin Schadt go deep into one of the hardest realities a Catholic father can face: seeking forgiveness from a child who’s been wounded by your failure. Drawing from personal experience, they walk through the steps of Recognize, Repair, and Rebuild—offering practical and spiritual insight for men who want to restore trust without forcing the outcome. This truth works for children from 18 months to adulthood. This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a call to live with humility, pursue the heart of your child, and become the kind of father they can one day forgive—even if they never say the words. Books for the Journey: LEAD – ⁠⁠https://shop.stewardshipmission.com/products/lead-daily-devontions-for-every-man QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠⁠ 🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS – 27 SESSIONS AVAILABLEEnjoy 27 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when your money helps build the very culture you're trying to protect your soul—and your family—from? John Heinen sits down with Chris McMahon—Catholic entrepreneur, father of five, and founder of two financial firms, including Aquinas Wealth Advisors—to expose what’s broken in modern investing and how faithful men can do better. With over 35 years of experience and appearances on Fox News and the Wall Street Journal, Chris has seen firsthand how mainstream portfolios often fund abortion providers like Planned Parenthood, adult entertainment empires, and false ideologies that corrupt the dignity of the human person. Instead of looking away, he built a firm that offers clarity, conviction, and Catholic-aligned investment strategies. Alongside his wife Molly, Chris co-founded Mary’s Place, a home for struggling mothers, and continues to serve the Sisters of Life and Sisters of Mary with bold generosity. His story is one of quiet defiance—against greed, cultural compromise, and moral indifference. This conversation challenges men not only to steward their wealth wisely but to do so with eternal impact in mind. 🟢 SPONSOR – https://holyhabits.app/gentleman/ Get your FREE Faith and Financing Score as well as Explore Chris McMahon’s firm – https://aquinaswealth.com/Catholics at the Shore – https://www.catholicsattheshore.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fr. Boniface Hicks, a Benedictine monk and spiritual director, shares insights from over 20 years of guiding men through identity crises and spiritual battles. He discusses the compelling need for clarity and courage in a world that prefers passivity. Key topics include the ancient wisdom of St. Benedict, the misunderstood power of anger, and the importance of Marian devotion in healing masculinity. Fr. Hicks emphasizes the significance of personal habits and spiritual direction in reshaping modern masculinity and nurturing authentic relationships.

Every man fights invisible battles—fear, self-doubt, shame, and the lies he tells himself over and over about who he is and what he is good at. In this episode, John Heinen sits down with Devin Schadt to expose the real front line of spiritual warfare and personal growth: your thoughts. Together, they unpack how negative thinking becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, why social media magnifies feelings of inadequacy, and how unchecked mental habits shrink your brain and strangle your soul. With raw honesty and practical wisdom, John and Devin walk through a three-step battle plan rooted in Scripture and backed by neuroscience-to help you take control of your thoughts, hold them captive, and experience the freedom, success, and joy God intends for your life. As Devin says, “The very fact that those thoughts make you feel bad… is proof that you’re good.” This episode will equip you to stop living in fear and start thinking with clarity, truth, and power. 🟢 FREE ROSARY this month – catholicgentlemanplus.com 🔥 Explore Devin’s work – fathersofstjoseph.org Books for the Journey: LEAD - ⁠Click Here⁠ QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠ Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman 🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS - 24 SESSIONS AVAILABLE Enjoy 24 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Help Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Men grow up with emotions they can't understand or explain—impatience, anger, frustration, even loneliness or sadness—and because they lack the framework for how to work with these emotions they are ultimately controlled by them. In this episode, John Heinen sits down with T.K. Coleman—top 100 podcaster (The Minimalists) and author of Emotional Clutter—to expose the quiet war within: a spiritual battle fought not with swords, but with unprocessed emotions and buried beliefs. Together they unpack why suppressing emotion doesn’t make you strong—it makes you weak and immature. Learn why reclaiming your inner life is essential to leading your outer one. This isn’t self-help fluff. It’s a battle plan for men who want clarity, freedom, and spiritual firepower in a distracted world. We also discuss our thoughts on Pope Leo XIV. 🟢 FREE ROSARY this month - ⁠https://catholicgentlemanplus.com⁠ 🔥 Get TK’s Book for FREE: Emotional Clutter🔥 Follow TK: ⁠Instagram | ⁠LinkedIn🔥 Explore The Minimalists Podcast: theminimalists.com/podcast QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠⁠ 🔴 FREE ROSARY | CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS Enjoy 24 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Help Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it take to master fear, stress, and anxiety in a world that constantly challenges men's confidence? Today, John Heinen welcomes Joe Hart, the transformational CEO of Dale Carnegie and Wall Street Journal bestselling author of 'Take Command.' As a converted lawyer leading a 100-year-old global organization while raising six children, Hart shares powerful insights on conquering the fixed mindset that paralyzes many men. This insightful conversation explores how to navigate major life transitions, build enduring relationships, and maintain family priorities amid professional demands. Hart reveals the surprising parallels between leading multinational organizations and guiding a family, offering practical wisdom rooted in both modern psychology and timeless principles. Don't miss this masterclass in authentic masculine leadership from one of today's most respected thought leaders. 🔥 FREE ROSARY this month - https://catholicgentlemanplus.com 🔥 Learn more about Joe Hart and his work: https://www.dalecarnegie.com https://www.amazon.com/Take-Command-Strength-Enduring-Relationships/dp/1982190108 https://www.linkedin.com/in/josephkhart 🟢 Catholic Podcasts and Music - https://www.streamfio.com QUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to ⁠podcast@catholicgentleman.com⁠ Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman 🔴 FREE ROSARY | CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS Enjoy 24 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.com Help Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when more boys have smartphones than fathers in their homes? A groundbreaking UK research study called 'Lost Boys' has revealed alarming trends about young men today. John Heinen and Devin Schadt welcome back three-time guest Jim O'Day to respond to and unpack this landmark research and its implications. Together, they examine how the critical absence of male role models—particularly fathers—is creating a generation of directionless young men. The conversation highlights shocking statistics: women in their 20s are consistently out-earning their male counterparts, and young men are afraid to talk to women. The trio explores how fatherlessness, education failures, technology addiction, pornography exposure, and society's ignoring of men are ruining the future of humanity. While secular solutions continue to fall short, John, Devin, and Jim present both immediate interventions and long-term approaches rooted in timeless Catholic wisdom. Don't miss this essential conversation about reclaiming authentic masculinity for the next generation. 🔥 Learn more about Jim O'Day's work at https://www.threepillarstopurity.com/👔 NEW Catholic Gentleman Apparel - https://store.catholicgentleman.com/collections/apparel-1Books for the Journey: LEAD - Click HereQUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to podcast@catholicgentleman.comCheck out the Fathers of St. Joseph - https://fathersofstjoseph.org/Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS (ENTERTAINMENT SESSION JUST LANDED)Enjoy 23 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.comHelp Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What starts as a small vice for men spirals into continuous sin, addiction, and spiritual destruction. Today, John Heinen and Devin Schadt tackle three devastating habits that plague virtually every man's journey. They reveal the surprising connection between self-perception and our most dangerous tendencies, showing how both thinking too little and too much of ourselves leads down identical paths to self-destruction. With brutal honesty from their own experiences, John and Devin offer a practical and simple framework for understanding and conquering these universal male struggles before they consume your life, relationships, and soul. Every man needs these insights for the battles in his life. 🔥 NEW Catholic Gentleman Apparel - https://store.catholicgentleman.com/collections/apparel-1Books for the Journey: LEAD - Click HereQUESTION FOR US: We love to answer your questions on the show so send them our way to podcast@catholicgentleman.comCheck out the Fathers of St. Joseph - https://fathersofstjoseph.org/Follow Us On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@TheCatholicGentleman🔴 CATHOLIC GENTLEMAN PLUS (ENTERTAINMENT SESSION JUST LANDED)Enjoy 23 unique sessions for men, access exclusive weekly content, ebooks, guest series, and our live Q and A at Catholic Gentleman Plus: https://catholicgentlemanplus.comHelp Support the Catholic Gentleman by either signing up for CG+ https://catholicgentlemanplus.com or https://catholicgentleman.com/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices