129. Stage 2 Series-Hesitation and Mixed Signals in Step 6-Yellow Lights

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"Yellow Lights in Love: Navigating Hesitation and Misattunement in Couples Therapy"

In this revealing episode of the Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Drs. James Hawkins and Ryan Rana dive deep into the subtle art of recognizing and transforming "yellow light" moments in couples therapy. Learn how seemingly supportive responses can actually reinforce disconnection in relationships, and discover techniques to help partners truly hear and validate each other's deepest vulnerabilities.

Key Points:
- Understanding "yellow lights" in EFT: Moments of partial openness or hesitation
- The critical difference between reassuring and truly being present with a partner's emotions
- How self-regulation and co-regulation work together in healing relationships
- Practical strategies for therapists to guide couples from disconnection to genuine emotional attunement

Whether you're a therapist, counselor, or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this episode offers profound insights into helping couples create deeper, more authentic connections.

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