Explore the power of asking others how they are doing, inspired by Martin Luther King Jr.'s approach. Learn why this simple question is important for parents and empathizing with others.
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Asking 'how are you doing?' instead of focusing on actions or achievements can show genuine care and foster connection in both social and parenting contexts.
Communicating without assumptions and engaging in open conversations creates a supportive environment where children feel understood and cared for.
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The power of asking 'how are you doing?'
In this podcast episode, the importance and impact of asking 'how are you doing?' is discussed through the example of Martin Luther King Jr. In the segregated south, where opportunities were limited, King's simple question made people feel seen and cared for. This small act of social grace, asking about someone's well-being instead of their actions or achievements, can also be applied in parenting. Instead of focusing on outcomes or assumptions, parents are encouraged to ask their children how they feel or if everything is okay. This shows genuine care, fosters connection, and validates their emotions.
Communicating without assumptions
The podcast emphasizes the need to communicate without assumptions, especially when interacting with our children. Instead of loaded questions, it suggests engaging in open and genuine conversations. For instance, rather than asking if a college-aged daughter has chosen a career (which implies expectations and pressure), parents are encouraged to inquire about her interests and well-being. By avoiding assumptions and focusing on connection, parents can create a supportive environment where their children feel understood and cared for.
“When Martin Luther King Jr. took over Dexter Avenue Baptist Church in Montgomery, AL, he insisted on a small social shift after his sermons that was immediately noticed. As he mingled with his parishioners on Sundays, he wouldn’t ask them what they were doing, the way previous pastors had. Instead, he looked them in the eye and said How are you doing?”
Learn more about this story and why the questions you ask your kids are so important on today’s Daily Dad podcast.
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