On Being with Krista Tippett

Ira Byock — Contemplating Mortality

Nov 7, 2013
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INSIGHT

Dying as Development

  • Dying is a natural part of human development, like adolescence or midlife.
  • Some people die well even without medical assistance, demonstrating an inherent capacity for growth.
ADVICE

Four Key Phrases

  • Use "Please forgive me, I forgive you, Thank you, I love you" when unsure what to say to the dying.
  • These phrases can help initiate meaningful conversations, even if not used verbatim.
ANECDOTE

Terminally Ill Child

  • Ira Byock counseled parents of a terminally ill four-year-old who is currently well.
  • He emphasizes focusing on how she lives her remaining time, not just whether or how long.
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