Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 008 - Fundamentals: Demon Dance Battles
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Jul 5, 2015 AI Snips
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Dinner Argument Example
- A dinner scene exemplifies conflict choreography showing blame and defensiveness.
- The exchange involved criticism over phone use and unappreciated effort in cooking.
Attachment Theory Explains Conflicts
- Conflicts often revolve around underlying emotions, not surface issues.
- Attachment theory explains pursuit and withdrawal behaviors during fights.
Name and Tame Fight Patterns
- Name and discuss your fight patterns outside conflict moments to better manage them.
- Avoid blaming during conflict by treating the fight as an external shared problem.