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Lead with Curiosity, Don’t Make People Part of Your Checklist, and Exceed Your People’s Expectations | ASK ME ANYTHING

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Oct 15, 2025
In a recent conversation, hosts tackle powerful listener questions about parenting with love and curiosity. They share strategies for connecting with teenage sons and highlight the importance of avoiding checklist mentalities in relationships. The discussion flows into practical advice for starting a business and knowing when to leave a job for better opportunities. Personal growth and finding peace while pursuing excellence are central themes, making this a motivating and insightful dialogue filled with relatable life lessons.
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ADVICE

Vision For Your Presence

  • Write a vision for how you show up as a parent rather than a fixed vision for your child.
  • Focus on values (how you act) more than goals imposed onto them.
INSIGHT

Curiosity Protects Influence

  • Unmet expectations create a 'heart at war' that undermines influence and coaching.
  • Treat people as whole and adopt curiosity to keep relational influence intact.
ADVICE

Lead By Coaching, Not Commands

  • Use coaching questions to drive self-directed behavior and ownership.
  • Read Co-Active Coaching to learn practical tools for curious, empowering conversations.
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