The "String of Yeses" Technique to Make Girls Fall in Love With You | How to Weaponize Cognitive Dissonance

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Oct 27, 2025

Discover how to harness the "String of Yeses" technique to boost attraction and compliance. Learn the ins and outs of cognitive dissonance and how small agreements can reshape feelings over time. Mark explains why getting women to invest effort, like cooking, can significantly increase attraction. He shares practical strategies for creating micro-compliance in social settings, including playful requests and leveraging identity statements to build deeper connections. Explore how these techniques can enhance relationships beyond dating!

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INSIGHT

Actions Shape Beliefs

Cognitive dissonance makes people change beliefs to match their actions, so actions often create attitudes.
Mark Singh says getting someone to act can make them like or believe differently about something.

ADVICE

Build A String Of Yeses

Do get a woman into a 'string of yeses' by starting with tiny compliance requests and ramping them up.
Mark Singh recommends any small compliance (driving, favors, tasks) increases her investment and attraction.

ANECDOTE

Tinder Drive Example

Singh uses a Tinder example where having her drive to you creates effort-based attraction.
He explains every minute she spends driving forces her to justify the effort by liking you more.

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In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals how to use the "String of Yeses" technique to trigger attraction, create compliance, and make women fall deeply invested in you.

By understanding cognitive dissonance — the psychological phenomenon that makes people justify their actions by changing their beliefs — Mark explains how to get women to chase you, value you more, and feel emotionally bonded through a simple series of micro-agreements.

Key Takeaways:

- How cognitive dissonance subconsciously changes how women feel about you.

- Why small acts of compliance make her like you more over time.

- The "String of Yeses" technique — and how to build irresistible momentum.

- How to use identity statements to influence her behavior and attraction toward you.

Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:49] – What is cognitive dissonance and how it affects attraction [00:02:59] – How actions shape beliefs — not the other way around [00:04:21] – The Tinder example: effort equals emotional investment [00:04:56] – Getting her to comply through small "yes" moments [00:06:42] – The Cooking example: why having her cook builds attraction [00:08:20] – The "String Of Yeses" Explained [00:08:40] – The bar-movement strategy and building micro compliance [00:10:46] – Using phone number exchanges and playful framing [00:13:09] – Speaking identity into women to reinforce positive behavior [00:18:01] – Applying the same principle to yourself with NLP [00:18:26] – Why 95% of Mark's clients succeed with this mindset reprogramming [00:20:14] – Wrap-up and final advice

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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

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