The podcast discusses why some women can be perceived as "bitches" and how to make it stop. They also explore women's preference for texting over talking and the challenges of rejecting men. The speakers emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, changing perception, and the power of confidence and niceness.
Focusing on building confidence and self-esteem can improve interactions with women.
Being honest and upfront in communication is better than using insincere phrases to soften rejection.
Deep dives
The Challenges of Approaching Attractive Women
Mitchell, a 23-year-old man from the UK, shares his struggle with approaching women he finds attractive. He notices that he becomes a different person and his confidence disappears when faced with someone he is attracted to. Our advice is for Mitchell to focus on building his confidence and self-esteem by engaging in hobbies and activities that make him happy. Furthermore, he should take pressure off himself and practice not caring about the outcome when interacting with attractive women. Additionally, we highlight that sometimes women may also feel intimidated by an attractive man, so it's important to remember that rejection or discomfort may not always be personal. Overall, confidence and a relaxed attitude can go a long way in improving his interactions with women.
The Unattractive Side of Using 'You're a Great Guy, But...'
We address a listener's concern about the common phrase 'you're a great guy, but...'. The listener finds this phrase disingenuous and wonders why people use it. We explain that sometimes people may use this phrase when they don't want to hurt the other person's feelings or avoid direct rejection. However, using this phrase can often come across as insincere. We clarify that it's important for individuals to be honest in their communication and upfront about their feelings rather than using this phrase as a way to soften the blow. Being genuine and straightforward is always better when it comes to relationships and dating.
Seeking Closure After a Breakup
A listener shares his experience of a difficult breakup, which involved infidelity. He asks if it is appropriate to ask his ex-girlfriend about the reasons for ending their relationship. We suggest that seeking closure is a reasonable desire, but he should be prepared for the possibility of not receiving a clear answer or any response at all. We emphasize the importance of focusing on self-improvement and personal growth after a breakup, as it allows one to move forward with their life. While getting closure can be helpful for gaining clarity, it is essential not to dwell on the past and to work towards a better future.
Do women actually enjoy rejecting you? Do they want to make you feel bad? Why does it feel like some women can be "bitches" to you and how do you make it stop? We discuss this with guest Christine Blackburn as well as do women prefer texting or talking.
For help with your conversation skills with women, go to www.KristenandChill.com. For help with your confidence, go to www.WinggirlMethod.com
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