EmPowered Couples with The Freemans Debriefing a Moment that Could Have Escalated For Us, But Became a Healing Conversation: Episode 429
Sometimes it's not the big issues that unravel a marriage, it's the small, everyday moments that quietly stack up. A comment said with the wrong tone. A boundary expressed when stress is already high. A familiar frustration bubbling up again. In this episode, we walk you through a real moment from our own marriage that easily could have turned into a fight, especially in a season where we're trying to leave old patterns behind and start the year differently. If you've ever thought, "Why does this keep happening?" or felt discouraged that the same tension keeps resurfacing, this conversation will feel very familiar.
Rather than glossing over it, we debrief the moment in real time, what was happening underneath the words, what didn't work in the past, and the subtle shifts that kept this from escalating. We talk about why trying to "fix" things too fast often backfires, how small pauses can change the entire trajectory of a conversation, and why understanding the need underneath the frustration matters more than proving your point. This episode isn't about perfection, it's about learning how to interrupt old cycles before they pull you back in. If you want this year to feel different in your marriage, this is a powerful place to start.
Relationship Resources mentioned in the episode:
👉 Our free 5 Root Causes of Conflict Webclass - understand the 5 root causes of conflicts, so that you keep from repeating the same patterns, just in different scenarios.
👉 Our upcoming In-Person Couples Workshop - join us in person in Arizona, Feb 22nd. This will be a day to transform your communication, conflict resolution, and connection in your marriage, to truly make this a new year!