
The Yes Theory Podcast What Makes Our Friendship Work
Oct 26, 2020
Dive into a heartfelt exploration of friendship among three dynamic individuals who tackle life's challenges together. They share insights on navigating personal struggles, evolving relationships, and the delicate balance between independence and connection. Discover the impact of living arrangements on their bond and the complexities of jealousy within a trio. With raw honesty, they discuss significant changes, including one member stepping back from hosting, and the importance of open communication in healing. Prepare for a reflective journey that encourages meaningful conversations.
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Shared Narratives Can Mask Present Reality
- Close friendships develop a shared narrative that people lean on when things get hard.
- Amar warns that living inside that story risks ignoring the relationship's present reality.
Proximity Replaced Relationship Practice
- The group never consciously practiced maintaining friendship because living and working together created constant proximity.
- Kate explains that moving out forced them to develop proactive habits to sustain the relationship.
Codependency vs Healthy Interdependence
- Codependency hid inside their closeness and distorted individual stability.
- Matt notes balance is required between healthy dependence and independent growth.


