New Mindset, Who Dis? 660 - A mindset to take their insult less personally
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Dec 26, 2024 Explore the journey of letting go of self-doubt and negative self-talk to foster personal growth. Discover how to embrace self-assuredness by tuning out external expectations and negativity. Learn the importance of reclaiming your narrative and maintaining self-worth amid criticism. This insightful discussion encourages introspection and the practice of self-compassion, helping you cultivate a true sense of identity beyond societal labels.
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Julian Blanc's Blue Hair Analogy
- Case Kenny recounts a TikTok video by Julian Blanc about reactions to insults.
- Blanc illustrates how self-assured people react to insults like "your blue hair is stupid" if they don't have blue hair.
Why Insults Sting
- Insults sting when they hit on existing insecurities or doubts we hold about ourselves.
- When someone voices our fears, it's like holding a mirror to our insecurities.
Process Insults Inwardly
- Don't fight the insult; instead, look inward and identify the part of you that believes it.
- Ask yourself where this belief comes from and don't blame yourself for feeling hurt.